This is a truly disturbing consequence of Purity Culture
𝐺𝑙𝑒𝑛𝑛 𝐻𝑖𝑙𝑙, 𝑏𝑦 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑤𝑎𝑦, 𝑖𝑠 𝑎 “𝐶𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑖𝑐𝑎𝑙 𝑆𝑒𝑥𝑜𝑙𝑜𝑔𝑖𝑠𝑡” 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑎 𝑃ℎ.𝐷.
Oh, REALLY?!? And between him and his wife, NEITHER of them could find her clitoris ... or knew about it or understood its place in human sexuality??? The raw, screaming ignorance expressed by this article is positively TRAGIC, as well as apparently being WILLFUL.
This – this, THIS, 𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 – is the brand of education these clueless Christians want to make universal for the United States, probably for the world, if they could. And this is why we must continue to fight them, tooth and nail, until their influence is GONE from our schools and our kids.
Ah... the elusive and reclusive clitoris. Difficult to find in the wild. Sometimes you have to do a little bushwhacking.
David Attenborough would say it better.
“Well, I don’t have a clitoris.”
No, you do have a clitoris. What you don't have is a fucking clue.
I’m surprised Phyllis acknowledged anything was wrong with her sex life. If the purity culturists had their way wives would just grit their teeth and bear it whenever and however long the husband wants it. Look at Ben Shapiro, spending multiple shows worth of time expressing how WAP means there’s something wrong with the woman and he has never done anything like that for his wife. But he’s not the only one. The Transformed Wife says similar stuff, it’s clear her husband has never bothered to find her clit. But the politicians who dismiss rapes by telling women to just ride it out it doesn’t take long. And these women are lucky, there are serious consequences for sex with unaroused women, tearing and infections can be deadly. (I have mentioned an incident I experienced when I was younger, it wasn’t because of a lack of lubrication, but a lack of knowledge and an excess of excitement nearly killed me.)
Also, if Phyllis was too shy to get help from her friend, she might also be too shy to talk with her husband about the issues she had with sex. Maybe not Phyllis here, but most certainly other women stuck in purity culture , or maybe they tried to bring it up with their husbands but were told to be quiet as the husbands know best. And there are a great deal of men who search out porn with frigid partners, who almost prefer sex with the dolls over a woman with human functions. They may not be a large minority of men, but I feel like they are the type to be attracted to the stunted women in the purity circles.
These are folks too, that are making educational decisions for whole communities. Pushing abstinence only sex education in schools, insisting all women experience this torture on their wedding nights.
"they could have checked out an anatomy book"
When I was at school in the 90's clitoris was never mentioned wether in biology textbooks/classes, sex education classes at my school and boardschool or the play I went with my boardschool.
And it wasn't an abstinence only one, STDs, condoms, birth control methods were mentioned every time.
Somehow, I didn't need a baby to learn where it was.
I suspect he made the title up. Painful for her, but they did it anyway. It was *her* problem, so no doctors. (He knew what it took for *him* to get pleasure, so screw it) I also can't believe she was so "modest" that she couldn't have another woman show her. Too ashamed to use an anatomy book. (I could see too broke to go to a doctor) Instead of having her friend show her on *her* body, she has to let her show her on her daughter's body. IOW, her daughter's nudity in front of her friend was okay, but hers was not.
A gay (male) couple wouldn't have this problem because there are only a few very,very,very fucked up boys who don't explore their own bodies and know at least a few things to give them pleasure.
Other than being a good rule follower what, exactly, does a rigid religious upbringing prepare you for? Absolutely none of it is reality-based.
There's a joke about Oral Roberts in there somewhere, but it's just not coming to me.
"It’s an entire ministry of the ignorant leading the ignorant at a time when what they all need is actual expertise."
It's all right here in this one sentence. Ignorance, which they call innocence, is a virtue. Knowing stuff is sin. It's right there in the Bible. If you talk about all of that dirty sex stuff, you're taking all of the romance and the magic out of it. And that was what God put into it for our own benefit, even if it's not. And besides, sex is dirty.
This woman with a "sexologist" for a husband chose not to eat of the tree in the garden.
Gross. Just gross. Seriously, go to the fucking library. Also, not for nothing, but before you assume you're missing a goddamn body part, perhaps consider that your husband is shit in bed. And so are you.
What the actual fuck. Why would the friend's first attempt to show her have to be on an infant. Just get a black and white diagram. This is so bizarre to me. Clearly the only thing they were doing was P in V with no foreplay and probably no lube. No wonder she didn't enjoy it.
Phyllis Hill needs to take advice from the new Christian messiah, Donald J(esus) Trump: "They let you grab 'em by the pussy." That's foreplay.
So the also had no access to the internet to Google “clitoris?”
It's amazing that Christians like these are able to reproduce at all.
Dominion's lawyers explaining that there is more to come. I should hope so. Because personally I think they've let America down – and democracy for that matter.